Was, wenn Eltern ihre Kinder schlecht erziehen? Was hat das für Konsequenzen? Wie sieht "schlechte" Erziehung überhaupt aus?
Was sind Fallschirmkinder?
Fallschirmkinder sind Kinder, die ohne Werte, Grenzen und Ordnung erzogen werden.
Sie lernen, dass sie alles bekommen können was sie möchten, denn ihre Eltern ziehen ihnen keine Grenzen auf. Es gibt keine Konsequenzen für ein schlechtes Verhalten der Kinder. Außerdem werden sie entweder zu sehr gelobt oder zu stark kritisiert. Es herrscht kein adäquates Verhältnis zu den Tatsachen bzw. den Taten der Kinder.
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Was sind Fallschirmkinder?
Fallschirmkinder sind Kinder, die ohne Werte, Grenzen und Ordnung erzogen werden.
Sie lernen, dass sie alles bekommen können was sie möchten, denn ihre Eltern ziehen ihnen keine Grenzen auf. Es gibt keine Konsequenzen für ein schlechtes Verhalten der Kinder. Außerdem werden sie entweder zu sehr gelobt oder zu stark kritisiert. Es herrscht kein adäquates Verhältnis zu den Tatsachen bzw. den Taten der Kinder.
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