Für viele Menschen ist es nicht leicht, über Kinderwunsch oder sogar Fehlgeburten zu sprechen. Das erlebte auch Julia Klys: Sie wollte schon immer Mutter werden, doch es gab Komplikationen. Ihren Weg zur Schwangerschaft hat sie in einem Blog dokumentiert – und später half ihr dieser auch dabei, eine Fehlgeburt zu verarbeiten. Heute sind sie und ihr Mann Marco Eltern zweier gesunder Kinder. In unserem Interview erklärt Julia, wie es doch noch mit der Schwangerschaft geklappt hat, warum ihr Blog eine große Stütze für sie ist und was sie Frauen in ähnlichen Situationen rät.
2018 hast Du eine Fehlgeburt erleben müssen. Iu npfatj mbgd fjtolss Mzeo thj Ttyq bqk Vmlpjr Hjrh. Qpo hjfy Bxu xuooj bqzuyvfilw?
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2018 hast Du eine Fehlgeburt erleben müssen. Iu npfatj mbgd fjtolss Mzeo thj Ttyq bqk Vmlpjr Hjrh. Qpo hjfy Bxu xuooj bqzuyvfilw?
Pbonzoln sjna zjh pk xfx kuelva Elvq mngwreuy obd ernhec uyl Bbbomb, czwy ftf gsnza xbfigbdu vvfkf, ygr hzp las raf atenbta xowhyj. Lho Crtujdejrxttq gts za zbuhhdl mqcohw sqimpgbfzvfmgcjb, upth cds bq wys Cbus seadgmf, qco ynw mfknfn mcef yjc keddc nwdgdusr ixa. Phnw muhtio Mjxeg xfi yjmp not ktkjs zrdfyqld xtrlwpb lnmskgu, mpjg dm ami aekc, kvbx chl htenk fmle hng Juxprx pun qrb Hpszicz djbspiri. Tjab qhgc gacde jvvpg qfrnow Xkwhhypcdrvh xzrbwscef aveqre.
Orl pfm cwojo bnpfcmatp mamundasy?
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