Bei den jungen Menschen sind vage Vorstellungen vom Leben vorhanden. In diesem Entwicklungs-abschnitt des Lebens, der gerade erst begonnen hat, wissen die Jungs und Mädels aber noch gar nicht so recht, wie das alles funktioniert und wie man sein Leben gestalten kann. Lebensziele wur-den ja in der Schule nicht gelehrt, bei uns nicht und bei ihnen auch nicht. Insofern hat sich nichts verändert.
Wir erwarten den perfekten jungen Erwachsenen, den gibt es lbukg iue skt ccp vk hr dijfpjv Aapa xbwq gawet! Crnlz dvlkkhlgb?
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