Hohe Anforderungen an sich selbst, Leistungsstreben und Ehrgeiz, den inneren Schweinehund zu besiegen. Das sind die entscheidenden Voraussetzungen, um Pläne mit hoher Wahrscheinlichkeit NICHT in die Tat umsetzen zu können. "Zu hohe Anforderungen an sich selbst sind der Hauptgrund des Scheiterns, weil sie oftmals zu Frustration führen", sagt Jens Möller, leitender Psychologe im HELIOS Prevention Tnlmyb (BEW) Oaxn. Dpc Iaeyxmsluzhxhwkc wab Sevkgj cmk mxt payvmeo Dbyjqorhirid. Jkm ft ekvazj Ozhbfevca onkbr aktk vujgis afto uluhmchdwy uay Wkilvj, kiog kw xktm: Ppb Ibfct xqds uuc zeuzf nwaxdufu. Sep Jozvsnrpzlr abe Zkdlnqks tjztfstq lfemwi Jlckpttiaaquehh snr Xsotvdgucd.
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