Wir alle haben Emotionen, die wir mal mehr und mal weniger offen zeigen. Wie verhalten wir uns aber im Berufsleben? Dürfen wir unsere Emotionen im Arbeitskontext authentisch zeigen oder müssen wir das sogar, um bestimmte Rollenerwartungen zu erfüllen? Was Emotionen genau sind, welche emotionalen Arbeitsanforderungen es gibt, wie sich Emotionen im Arbeitskontext regulieren lassen und welche Auswirkungen das für Angestellte hat, zeigte Prof. Dr. Laura von und zu Gilsa in ihrer Antrittsvorlesung: „Was kostet ein Lächeln? Emotionsregulation im Arbeitskontext“. Das Hessische Ministerium für Wissenschaft und Kunst berief sie zur Professorin am Fachbereich Gesundheit & Soziales der Hochschule Fresenius.
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