Mama, Papa und zwei Kinder - fertig ist die Standardfamilie? Früher vielleicht, heute definitiv nicht mehr. Familie wird mittlerweile in den unterschiedlichsten Varianten gelebt. Die klassischen Rollenbilder haben sich überlebt, viele Traditionen und Regeln ebenso. Kurz: Familien haben (mehr oder weniger) die freie Wahl, wie sie leben wollen - und müssen umgekehrt ihren individuellen Weg für ein glückliches Zusammenleben entwickeln. Eine eigene Familienkultur ist dafür eine wichtige Voraussetzung, sagen Expertinnen wie die Diplom-Pädagogin Gabriele Pohl, die die JAKO-O Initiative "Lasst Kinder einfach Kinder sein" unterstützt. Doch was verbirgt sich hinter diesem Begriff? Und vor allem: Wie können Familien ihre eigene Rkbkvo lqcnwiayam?
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