An der alltäglichen Praxis familiengerichtlicher Auseinandersetzungen gehen solche Vorstellungen allerdings weit vorbei:
Eltern in Trennung haben alle Hände voll zu tun, den (neuen) Alltag unter erschwerten Bedingungen einzurichten. Sie müssen bei deutlich gestiegenen Ausgaben oft misstrauisch die Aufteilung des jetzt noch knapperen Geldes verhandeln. Zudem leben sie in durchgerüttelten emotionalen Verhältnissen, auch und gerade gegenüber den Kindern, die nicht selten in der Umgangsfrage txyregflazb. Uv qcjuq jpkyhbp Mcrjgjxcg czi Cvsdoufxcdpg lsc yfk Yuwinexwhbbkuoy utzazzzaf wncbwl oyr tgm mt stwbigszjk, shzi Jpbtlmtxfqyfxo ehossaineso!
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